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writes: I am really worried about my relationship with my boyfriend, he has always been really attentive and our sex life was (I thought) really great. But I have recently found out that he has been looking @ porn on the internet. It's been going on for ages. I don't know what to do, because although I know it's totally normal and every guy does it, it doesn't help how I'm feeling. I can't help thinking now every time we are together that he wishes I was more like the girls he sees on the web, with big boobs and great bodies, I just feel really uncomfortable around him now and I don't enjoy sex. I've spoken to him about it and he says he loves me the way I am and he'll stop looking at it but it still doesn't take away from the fact that he want's to look at other women in the first place, and I just can't believe him.Am I being over sensitive?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2005): I can understand how you feel i would feel the same if my bf was looking at porn. If he really needs to look at it then ask him to do it while you are with him. If you would be comfortable with that.Please dont compare yourself to these women, they get paid for what they do, their bodies are tweaked with camera trickery to try to make them look good. And lets face it, how great do these women look, doing that for everyone to see. Not very!!Dont let him make you feel bad, tell him you dont like it, if he loves you, he would not want to hurt you and therefore respect your wishes and stop.And like i said there is no comparison between you and those women, you have 100 times more worth than them.
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