A
female
age
51-59,
*mkw
writes:Last night I had an incredibly intense dream about an ex-boyfriend, and it is still disturbing me many hours later. The dream was so full of LONGING for this person, and in the dream we were figuring out how to leave our current spouses in order to fulfill our desire to be together. I dated this guy a long time ago, mainly when I was 16 (I am 36 now!). We have quite a history though. we "went out" for awhile in 7th grade, then in 8th grade too. We had a year long relationship when I was 16, and then hooked up again off and on (sexually) after that for a few years. I have now been married to my husband for 10 years and am very satisfied with our relationship. We also have 2 beautiful young daughters. I dream about this ex boyfriend very often, but last night's dream was by far one of the most intense. I am very disturbed. What is going on with me???
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reader, cd206  +, writes (29 January 2007):
 I'm thinking from the way you describe him that this ex was your first serious boyfriend right? I often wonder myself whether we ever truly get over our first loves. They seem to stay with us in a way that none others do but you said it yourself, you're satisfied in your relationship with your husband and you have two daughters that deserve to grow up in a two parent family so try to put your ex to the back of your head. It's okay to have the dreams and fantasies as long as they stay just that.
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