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writes:Ok me and my wife broke up for 1 year after a 3 year marriage,break up was basically down to her family and we both agree on this and have been cut out of our lifes,we have recently started seeing each other again,we live apart but have been spending odd night together at each others home,sexually its very good,iv always imagined her with another man and she did tell me some details of sex with other men while we were apart,it turned me on,should i tell her id like to have a 3 sum with her? if so whats the best way of bringing it up? i do know shes into it as she has done it in past but im just kinda scared of bringing it up
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2011): No, I dont think a threesome would help...why reconsile by doing the something that would put your relationship in grave danger...You will most likely regret this thressome as it will bring up jealousy and trust issues..so find a way to spice up your relationship without involving a third party...Marriage is supposed to be a monogamous relationship which I believe is the contract you have entered..dont do it even if your partner asks you to..It is wrong
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reader, TheFurFiles  +, writes (6 March 2011):
 What do you want? A relationship with this woman or group sex with her as one of the participants? As everyone else has said, if it is a relationship that you want, then you need to get that on solid ground first - stick to each other for the first little while. Then, when you feel like things are good - I'd give it at least a year - say something like, "I'm really an open-minded person. If there was ever anything you wanted to try, I'd probably be up for it." In my experience, it is better to leave the door open in this regard and let the other person walk through it if they want to, rather than telling her that is something YOU want. If on the other hand, this threesome thing is what you want - if sex is the priority and not the relationship and you just want your ex a part of it - then I'd make it very clear to her so she can decided what (if anything) she wants from you. Good luck,Fern (TheFurFiles)
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (6 March 2011):
 This is a tenuous time in your relationship and you cannot think that just because she has done it before, she is willing to do it again. Do you know for a fact that she is into that thing anymore? If you were I suspect you would not fear asking her. If you are truly intent on reconciling and reigniting whatever love burned between you, I would not risk it like this.
I hope that helps.
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reader, StarryEyes101 +, writes (6 March 2011):
 I agree with CindyCares. Get her some roses and chocolates or take her out for a nice meal. She had a threesome before being married right? Then, I doubt she wants to do it when she is married. She may be offended if you want that.
I hope this helps
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (6 March 2011):
 A threesome... to celebrate a reconciliation ? how wonderfully romantic . How exquisitely intimate : a candlelit bedroom ...music in the background... just the two of you-,,, oh, and "Big Tool " Johnny of course.
..I don't know ...for some reason I think you 'd better reconcile with a nice bunch of roses....
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