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41-50,
*wakened
writes:Reconciled and remarried your ex-spouse? Know of others in your circle that have done this? I could have this potential and am looking to hear stories of others. How long were you married? How long seperated and divorced before remarrying? Any relationships in between? How far into the remarriage are you and how's it going? Reasons for original divorce? On a side note, I know I can't edit replies but I would rather not hear the "an ex is an ex for a reason" comment. Thx for sharing!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2012): Hi, I am not in your shoes, but I believe it is possible to reconcile with the ex. I would hope that those differences have been resolved as well. If the marriage ended because both or either party was unfaithful, then reconciliation is a long and tough road as there is no trust and always a risk of history repeating itself. I am supportive of a reconciliation but there needs to be an understanding and commitment from both parties to make it work. Goodluck
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2012): A reconciled marriage is possible. So long as both parties have felt their issues have been heard, validated, and worked out in a healthy manner.Forgiveness and accountability goes along way. Also, it helps to know where you both stand on what is important, how you both problem solve, how you communicate and listen.I suggest you both work together to come up with your marriage/family/home mission statement.example - we are two individuals coming together in love, honesty, respect, friendship and will put our duties to one another first, leaving all outside influences outside of our home. We stand united against such outside attacks that seek to tear unsunder our Love. Such things are important and help you both to maintain focus, direction by having this common goal to refer to.I suggest counselling be an effort now, to ensure this time around, things have a great chance of overcoming the darkness and pain of the past.That there is indeed a clean slate and less chances of falling into old patterns of behaviour from your marriage.
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