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writes: Me and my bf often quarrel these days because I am not sure if he likes someone and I think he is happy with his officemates rather than being with me and for that reason I always nag him.. I think He care for someone... He said to me I am always watching him in everything he does and he feels he is not a free man...He let me chose on what decision do i like, between being with him with a condition that I would let him be free on what he wants to do and trust him but he is not sure that he would love someone OR we will broke up...I chose being with him with a condition...What will I do I am afraid what if he would love someone!?Please help me... I am so nervous and bothered I don't want to lose him... Can you give me advices...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2006): seems to me this is paranoia. Look hun, the biggest factor that you need in a relationhip is trust. Without trust there is nothing. You need to learn to trust in your man, if he has said that he will not love someone else and if he has given u a decision that you either be with him but on a condition that you let him be free and you need to trust in him. Does that not show you how much he is trying to sort this out.
If it were other males they'd probably would've already told you to (sorry to say but) piss off! I don't mean to be harsh but you need to let loose a little. Show him that you are also trying too. Don't ask as many questions...instead of always seeming so interested in what he is doing, going to do or what he did. Suggest things that you two as a couple can get up to. A little one on one time.
If you want this to work and don't want him to leave. Try and learn how to trust in him. Tell him why you feel this way and ask him to help you gain more trust. Maybe he could compliment more and then yous can spend more intimate time together.
Hope this will help
Best of Luck....xo
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