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writes: I've known this guy for 5 years. A year ago we slept together and now it's really awkward between us. I think he likes me but he hasn't shown much interest since we had sex. If I contact him, he gets in touch but I always have to make the first move. I want things to go back to the way they were, even though I am very attracted to him and I think he's attracted to me. He's invited me for a drink and is keen to meet up but I saw him a few weeks ago and ignored him because I think he's dangling the proverbial carrot in front of the donkey and now I don't know what to do. I'm so confused. Please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (12 July 2006):
 Well coming from a male's point of view. I would bet he is thinking "Why buy the cow and I'm already drinking the milk?" For a lot of guys (NOT ME) having sex is like putting money in the bank. Once they take it out the interest is gone. He knows that you like him and he is milking it for everything that its worth. He doesn't want to be with you persay but he will keep you around for that late night snack or an early dinner. If you know what I mean. Don't let him reduce you to this. You are human and deserve more than this. Good Luck.
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