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writes:I met this guy randomly on the road and he was interested in me, he asked for my number I took his. I called him 2 days later, we talked and my girlfriends and I had a party to go to, so I asked him if he could give me a ride to one of my girlfriends house. He was suppose to meet me at the club my girlfriends and I were going to but didn't show. We were so compatible when he was driving me to my girlfriends house like I felt so comfortable talkin to him like I knew him a long time or something. Anyway, from last night I was at the club I don't hear from him when I tried to call his phone to see where he was. Could somebody tell me why he hasn't called?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2011): After only one or two conversations with a virtual stranger you felt comfortable enough to hit him up for a ride? Did he have a taxi sign on his car when you met him?
He may have been busy or figured you were busy but invited him along on a girls' night just to be polite. He might have been interested in you, but not enough to shuttle you about and hang out with your friends all night.
You've only just met. Too soon to be asking for favours and too soon to be worrying about why he hasn't called.
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (25 June 2011):
 The sparks flew, you both flirted, etc.
But you do not really know him. You did not know his charachter or if he was reliable. Who knows why he didnt show/call. Only he knows the answer.
But, you can not get hurt/dissapointed by someone you do not know. If he was TRULY interested, he would have at least called to let you know he was not coming.
Lots of men flirt and the only real conquest is getting your number. I am a firm believer that when a guy asks for that number, do not call first. Let him make the move.
No sense getting your hopes up for a hit and run flirtation.:) Let them work for it.
Best Wishes.
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