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writes:Hiim 18 nearly 19 and just doing my a level exams, im 3 and a half months pregnant with my boyfriends baby who is 30 nearly 31, we have been together for about 10 months and i love him with all my fault and the feeling is matual,he is very keen for me to move to manchester with him as this is where he works and has a house but im not keen to i don't know what it is but something seems to be holding me back, how do i let him know that i still love him and want him just not ready for that kind of commitment (btw i live in london and have a very big family support unit) please i really need some advice x S Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2009): don't ruin your life by ditching your education.education is something you will never get back years you can't go back in time for it. there is a 11 year age difference i suggest you just tell him you are not ready.
i think you are very brave to have this baby , your bf probably just wants to help support you but if it was me i would stay with my family and keep studying.
reason being is that i think it is important to be able to earn your own money, have your own independance and not have to ask your lad for money.you need to be able to support your child too if you are having it.
doesn't mean you should leave your bf bt i don't think you should move in with him particarly if you have a bad feeling about it it will be easier for him to move nearer to you and get a new job. but if you move away you are losing your education.
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