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writes: I’m just trying to respond to some of the girlfriends out there writing in about their boyfriends promising never to view pornography again, yet they break their promises and do it anyway.I’ve been married almost 35 years, have been in the relationship for almost 39 years. My 61 year old husband has promised me countless times he’d stop. He didn’t. I forgave and have forgiven him many times, but I finally, after all this time, stopped forgiving him. He says “all guys do it and it’s normal” well if all guys do it, I can’t trust any man. This has hurt me beyond belief. I’d have never hurt my husband like this. A husband should be a safe place and not cause this kind of pain. After reading many articles about this, I’ve found that “not all guys do it.” I thought we had a good sex life and a wonderful family. Find yourself a man who puts you first and not disgusting teenagers doing ungodly sexual acts. Save yourselves the pain. Unless he gets serious help now and admits he lies and can’t be trusted, has a sickness, (evidently an addiction/compulsion) please, save yourselves decades of pain. Don’t marry him until he does.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2022): Im a 66 year old man my wife & I use to watch porn & read erotic stories together all the time when we where younger she saw no problem with it as it was a erotic turn on for both of us
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