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Please help! I'm 11 and want to know how to approach hugging and kissing my girlfriend

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Question - (12 September 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 14 September 2007)
A male United States age 26-29, *obbie writes:

Hi.im 11 and i've been going out with my girl for 3 weeks.i dont know how to hug/kiss my girlfriend.i also dont know how to tell her i love her.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007):

Aw.. that is very sweet what i would do if i was you is just take it slow give her a hug and a kiss on the cheek hello and good bye

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A female reader, honestheart United Kingdom +, writes (13 September 2007):

Listen you're only 11 years old. What feels like love now is probably just infatuation, especially just after 3 weeks. You don't want to scare the poor girl off! Just take things slowly and let things develop naturally. As for hugging/kissing, you'll know when the time is right and just be yourself. She's probably just as nervous as you!

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A female reader, youcant loose what you never had! United Kingdom +, writes (13 September 2007):

firstly three weeks you cant love someone that quick the sad reality is she could turn out to be a nutter!

however you do need to get to know her!

you could:

chat on msn or go to the cinima or bowling or why not spend time tying out a game!you each right 5 things down you want to no about the other person then you take it in turns awnsering.thats an easy fun way ov getting to no someone.

hugging:girls defo like that they feel sucure and protected which is nice but dont overdo it.ask her if you can hug her shes bound to say yes afterall girls prefer lads to make the first move on anything.

kissing:i was scared at first to but when the times right itll come naturally to you it will feel right your girlfriend wouldnt laugh if you got it wrong a true girlfriend wouldnt mind.

final point:RELAX THINGS WILL COME NATURALLY TOO YOU WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT!!! X X X

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A female reader, youcant loose what you never had! United Kingdom +, writes (13 September 2007):

firstly three weeks you cant love someone that quick the sad reality is she could turn out to be a nutter!

however you do need to get to know her!

you could:

chat on msn or go to the cinima or bowling or why not spend time tying out a game!you each right 5 things down you want to no about the other person then you take it in turns awnsering.thats an easy fun way ov getting to no someone.

hugging:girls defo like that they feel sucure and protected which is nice but dont overdo it.ask her if you can hug her shes bound to say yes after all girls prefer lads to make the first move on anything.

kissing:i was scared at first to but when the times right itll come naturally to you it will feel right your girlfriend wouldnt laugh if you got it rong a true girlfriend wouldnt mind.

final point:RELAX THINGS WILL COME NATURALLY TOO YOU WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT!!! X X X

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007):

Hi, take it slowly, start by taking her to the cinema and put your arm around her during a movie then whisper in her ear ''You are so beautiful'' On another occasion ask her ''Do you mind if I kiss you?'' The key is don't be too pushy or rush things, but compliment her and hold her hand at all opportunities. Good luck buddy

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