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Our wedding was planned for next year but he avoids talking about it?

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Question - (22 June 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 June 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have been with my fiance for 7 years we have lived together for 1 years with my 3kids one of which are his.. Every time I mention our wedding which is suppose to be next year he laughs or smerks. He never gives me a definite answer on if he really plans getting married to me.. what should i think do or say.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2008):

Oh I forgot, the smiling and sniggering, is childish male behaviour which I call "smugness". He's smiling like a cheshire cat, because he's done something good, he's made you happy and given you something that you really want. Have fun planning the wedding, smile a lot, and be happy. Try not to go over budget, cause then he'll stop smiling and start to take things more seriously.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2008):

Askoldersister's advice was spot on. Plan the wedding and he will show up on the day. Arranging marriages equals boredom to most men, just get on with it and make it your special day. Oh yea! Congratulations.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2008):

Yes i have the ring...he proposed last year on Christmas Eve, and he says he has every intention of marrying me next year, but i get the feeling that he doesn't really plan on marrying me.

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