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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Good day,Me and my husband has been know each other since grade 6 where we were dating. We have been in a serious relationship for 13year now and is married for 3 year now we have a 1year old boy.My question is that for plus minus 7year now i struggle with our bed room life.He doesn't like to do oral sex on me but like when it's done on him. He can't pleasure me and i always have to ask him for sex. ones a month is more than enough for him. I know he doesn't cheat on me because he get wet dreams. I love him very much but starting to get tired to always try.It feels if i am the man of the house and he is the women. There isn't another case wich i know of that have this problem so nobody have an answer for me. I realy need a solution. I know sex isn't everything but i does count doesn't it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2010): You have to come right out and tell him what you want. We men aren't mind readers. Be prepared to hear something that you might not want to hear. You may have an odor that has been causing him not to reciprocate. If that's the case don't be embarrassed. If that's the problem that can easily be fixed. Talk to him. Tell him you miss passion in your lovemaking. Tell him your wants and needs.
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reader, DiamondsAndPearls  +, writes (16 March 2010):
 Have you spoke to him about it ? Or just left it to lye? Because that really is the first step. Just try sitting him down and telling him you love him but things have to change. Maybe hes just not the sexual but he tell him he needs to try harder. Mayab suggest you talk about your fantasies to turn him on and getting him to talk about his. Or maybe a trip to ann summers as a couple. Try and get him feeling more sexual. Perhaps getting him to read a arotic novel might help. These are just a few ideas i could thing of. Hope this helps. Check this every few days so i you need to talk more just send me a message x
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