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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I've been dating someone for almost a year now. He might very well be the nicest guy I've ever dated. He's handsome, caring, thoughtful and all the things you'd want in a man...almost. I feel our relationship is lacking communication in the fact that he never tells me how he feels about me or our relationship. It's just been kind of comfortable from the beginning. I've addressed to him that he never compliments me and he admits to this, but doesn't do anything to change it. Our silences aren't necessarily uncomfortable but I also feel after a year of a relationship there should be more passion and the key to any relationship...Communication! I fear if I stay we will not grow closer and the relationship will grow stagnant, and possibly meet someone that gives me the communication I need later when I feel to far gone to split. I fear if I leave I will be giving up the best thing that's happened to me. They say "you just know". I don't feel like I know at all. Help :( Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): Sorry its taken so long for someone to reply to this...
My initial instinct is that men NEVER tell people how they feel. Or thats the stereotypical image anyway. If you just say how you feel, start it off, then ask him. Just get a conversation going about it.
Don't do it in the middle of the night. No way in hell will we talk then.
Message me on an update if your still around..
Gecko,,
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