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writes:dear readers, i have been going out with my boyfriend for almost three years now and we have done almost everything sexually. we seem pretty good at it by now but one thing always plays at my mind.every time i give him a blow job he tries to puch deeper (i know why) and i really want to be able to do that for him( let him deeper) but the thing is sometimes it makes me feel sick.it would mean alot to me to be able to do this for him and and i would really appreciate some helpfull answers.hope you can help..
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (1 February 2011):
 It's all about relaxing the throat muscles and training your body not to gag. The gag reflex can be hard to overcome, but it can be done with practice. There are a couple of numbing sprays that might help too. Actually, this is a pretty common question, so I bet if you search you can find some good pointers too.
Kudos to you for wanting to do this for him. He's a lucky guy! I hope he appreciates you as he should.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (1 February 2011):
 From my point of view a BJ is great even if done "shallow" he should have No problems at all, for variety,though a perfect hand job is just as good(sometimes better) if acompanied with oral stimulation. Lucky dude
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reader, dollface1  +, writes (1 February 2011):
 If you can imagine yourself practicing on a dildo and not immediately collapse in giggles you’re ahead of the game and I give you my blessing. Buy something realistically sized and inexpensive (jelly rubber, probably), pretend it’s attached to your boyfriend (the sillier the color the harder this is to carry off, I imagine) and see how deep, fast, and et cetera you can go without gagging. Keeping your neck straight and head slightly back are supposed to help, although the often-recommended lie-on-your-back-with-your-head-off-the-edge-of-the-bed position strikes me as ill-advised at best, since we are trying to avoid panic here and what could be more panic-inducing than having your airway and vocal capability cut off while somebody straddles your chest? Try lying prone or crouching, with the dildo upright as though projecting jauntily from your boyfriend’s pelvis as he lies on his back, and practice opening your throat as though chugging a beer or saying “Aah.” You may find, in time, that you really can control your gag reflex. The feedback provided by a real live boyfriend, though, in the form of appreciative gasps and groans, is a motivator the likes of which mere plastic, no matter how colorful, will never achieve. Not, at any rate, with today’s technology, androids and Replicants not yet having started rolling off the assembly lines and into our toy-boxes.
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