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writes:I wanted peoples input on my letter im going to handwrite and give to my ex in an envelope. I said some terrible things to my ex after she dumped me and i need to get them off my chest. I just wanted to make things clear since I do owe you this I’m sorry for what I’ve done. In the past weeks/months I’ve been realizing how immature I was towards you when we broke up. I said some stuff I really didn't mean and they hurt you. I was just emotional messed up with all the things going on in my life. I’m sorry I took them out on you and you don’t deserve that. You are right I am emotional unstable but, I have learned through life that u should live everyday as if it were your last always tell everyone how u feel towards them this is why I follow my emotions. I do owe Kyle, your friends, and your family an apology and I’m sorry I never meant to say those things I said I was just upset. Ur right it is none of my business who your friends with or who u date. It was this that made me realize i was changing from being my strong, happy, confident, independent person who wanted to make everyone happy to someone who was trying to be dependent on someone else and just wanted the things that I wanted. I’m sorry for all the unnecessary drama i have caused you and I’m sorry that we didn't work out you were right. I should tell you that it was my fault we broke up and not urs. I never thought you were a bad person I always thought you were someone who is smart, confident, and caring and that makes you who you are. I truly hope that whatever your doing you are happy. Im not going to bother you again with this i truly am sorry and goodbye.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 April 2011):
 What dont you understand about the smiley face exactly? It is just her way of showing you that she is happy and that she never wants you to change, dont read to much in to it. It is obvious she appreciated the letter. So leave it at that. Your job is now done. Move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionalright so i gave her the letter when we were leaving i said her name she turned around and just smiled it was like she just got a present. I got a text saying that it was unexpected and thanks she forgave me and said she was happy and hopes that i am too. i said nothing then fifteen minutes later said im a good hearted person and not to ever change that with a smiley face at the end. i replied five hours later cuz of working out with a thanks. Thing that gets me from time to time is the smile im wondering why?
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reader, raiders +, writes (5 April 2011):
 The letter sounds good. My suggestion to you is to move on and respect her wishes. Make sure you understand that this is a closure letter and not an apology lets get back together letter, so don't expect much in return.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (5 April 2011):
If it is going to give you closure on it well then send it I dont see anything wrong with the letter, just make sure that you are not expecting anything from it or are wanting a reply. Because if you are and you dont get it you may end up hurt even more. Goodluck.
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