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One minute I'm crying over him, the next I'm like whatever, I don't care! Help!

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Question - (26 September 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 September 2008)
A female India, *weetytoby11 writes:

I started talking to this boy last december when i was 18 and he was 17. We became really close talking every minute. Now i should mention he was on an ankle bracklet at the time. Okay so in that January he got locked up and we wrote to each other every week and when he got phone calls he called me and we talked and we were still really close. I have alot of feelings for him. Well its now September im now 19 he is 18 and he just got out. He is also acting completely different. Saying he doesnt have time cause of his f-ing schedule and he wouldnt answer my calls. Im really hurt by these actions of his. I ran into him today at my college and he said he did want to see me and that he was sorry for the way he was acting and that he missed me. I guess my whole thing is am i in love with this kid i mean can i be cause when he was free we only hung out three times technically before he got locked up. Or am i just trying to hold on to something of my immagination because im lonely. Im confused one minute im crying because he wont talk to me, and the next minute im looking at his myspace and there's this new girl in his first spot and im not there anymore and it doesnt effect me and im like whatever i dont care. please help me im so confused. Should i fight for him or should i fight to keep him as a friend or just let it become whatever it becomes?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2008):

hey :)

i know its easy to say this but i would try and let go of this boy, i dont mean never see him again or forget him- dont do that because he was obviously something special to you.

but if he has other girls as his top myspace and doesnt have time to see you that much anymore then it looks like he has moved on.. i would just be his friend for now :)

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