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Question - (20 August 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 August 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 13-15, anonymous writes:

need advice for going on top during sex how to be goods and how to do it??

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2007):

let him slide in and out of you when your on top asnd tease him make him want you but don't let him try and take control you have to be in control and you should love the results

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2007):

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thanks for the replies especially to the second one because ive tried going on top nd my boyfriend helps me and says that i can do it and he says that practice makes perfect but its not that he precures me into it its just i want to no how to boost my confidence xxxx

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A female reader, spanna United Kingdom +, writes (20 August 2007):

spanna agony aunti used to be exactly like you. Are you self conscienceabout yourself? or just whether you are doing it right? if you are just worried about whether you are doing it right just do what feels right, i know that sounds obvious, but whn he is inside you just move back n forth n up n down and round in circles too doo wha feels good to you he will enjoy it no matter what you will be able to tell from his face thta he is enjoying it guys love girls going on top coz they get to see you lots. if you are self conscience dont worry he is with you coz he loves you just the way you are just enjoy urself and ur confidence will grow trust me. i used to dread going on top but now i'm on top probably 60% of the time :) enjoy hope this helps

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2007):

Well thats a hard question to give advice for but generally to go on top i think you need to be confident and know what you're doing, i mean if it's your first time ever then i wouldn't recommend it as my friend found it quite tricky first time she was on top. It's pretty much the same as being on bottom only the other way around lol. If anyone else gives you advice for this question they might be patronising (I've seen it with other questions from younger people) so I apologise in advance if you get a bad reaction. But you are underage, so I hope you are using contraception (definately condoms) and you have thought about this responsibly, as in you are definately ready for sex and you really really care for the person you do it with and they respect you. Don't ever do anything you aren't completely sure you want to do. Just a little advice :) hope i helped xxxx

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