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*davis414
writes:When I was 14 I fell in love with this guy. And he fell in love with me. Or so he claimed. We were always together and I felt so happy. But without warning, he just..disappeared. Ignored me, didnt respond to me and acted like he know nothing. But for that past five years on and off he's contacted me, asking to see me and we'll have these one night stands,(not sex just being together) and he'll really act like he cares. Then last year I finally gave in and lost my virginity to him. Now he's back and saying he still loves me. I don't know whether to hold on or let go. he's been through a lot and I I've always been there for him. How do I give up now?
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reader, Bdavis414 +, writes (6 November 2012):
Bdavis414 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know you're right. It's just hard. He's had some rough times. He's been hurt a lot. And he always comes to me. I'm one of the those people who is always there for him. He's not good at opening up and showing who he really is. But I know that if he really cared for me he wouldn't do this. Thanks for your advice, I really do appreciate it.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (6 November 2012):
 Let go already ! How many more years you want to waste over somebody who only loves you on and off.. and more off than on ? ...
He "still " loves you ? Why, was he loving you before ? And how did he show his love to you, by showing up once in a blue moon, using you and disposing of you as if you were a Kleenex ?... Not very loving, IMO.
Love is consistent- LUST is fickle.
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