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writes:Hi I'm 14 years old and I'm afraid that I might be turning lesbian. When I'm alone I like to watch lesbian porn and masturbate. It arouses me and I have an amazing orgasm, but when I'm done I regret doing it and feel ashamed and weird. I really don't wanna be gay I wanna like only boys. Don't get me worn I mean I have nothing against gay people. I actually love boys but I like girls a little. Sometimes if I see lesbian girls I imagine me hitting them with a strapon and eating them I seriously think I have a problem but I don't wanna be gay someone please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2012): I am as straight woman who is very much into men, but I have ALWAYS gotten more aroused watching porn involving 2 women or a threesome with a guy and 2 women. I enjoy it more so than just 1 guy and 1 woman. I think its because I can associate the sensation more watching the women. Thats just my theory, not sure exactly why. But it is definitely nothing to worry about.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (6 November 2012):
 you are either straight, gay or bi... there is nothing you can do to change what your inherent sexual orientation is.
straight women watch gay porn.... it does not mean you are gay.
if you are gay however you can't change it... it's hard wired in your being...
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (6 November 2012):
 You are rather young to be watching porn, it can have a negative affect on your sexual development but it is your life and up to you what you choose to do. You do need to know/learn that porn is very fake and does not reflect real sex, whether that is between a gay, lesbian or straight couple.
Lots of people your age question their sexuality, it does not mean you are gay, it does not mean you are straight.
I would try not to think about or worry about it too much and maybe try not watching as much or any porn and see how you feel then.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2012): I agree with person12345. People don't just turn gay. It's something you are or aren't. You're born that way.
You are too young to be watching porn. Again I agree, fantasising about women and masturbating isn't bad. By all means do it. Just cut the porn.
In this instance, I think you are mistaken about what lesbians are. Most lesbians do not use strap ons because they are lesbians, and they don't like males gentitals.
It sounds like the thought of a strap on arouses you which leads me to believe that you have nothing to worry about because a strap on is penis shaped. Lesbians generally don't like penises. I know lesbian porn portrays it that way but sex is never like how porn shows it to be.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (6 November 2012):
 People don't turn gay, you are or you aren't and nothing you do or don't do can change it. Fantasizing about other women won't turn you gay if you aren't and forcing yourself not to fantasize about women won't stop you being gay if you are. You are young and likely have a lot of hormones going nuts right now, just try to relax and see what happens. If you are gay, it is OK. You can't change it, so worrying about it won't help. As you get older things will get clearer and easier to decipher.
A lot of straight women prefer lesbian porn. However, the key word is WOMEN. Not girls. You are way too young to be watching porn. By all means masturbate, but try cutting out the porn. Fantasizing about women is one thing, but fantasizing about doing porn things with women is a different thing. One means you might be a lesbian, the other doesn't.
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