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Older Women dating Younger Men
writes:One question which is quite interesting but is also quite personal is how did their own relationships go in the past? Why are the older women dating younger men? Were there problems, did something happen in the past that has stopped them from dating for a long while, due to illnesses, maybe getting over loved ones which can take a long time, grievance or is it deciding what some of man they would really like to meet. These can be negative issues which would be best to steer away from in the beginning of the friendship. For the time being there would be no need to know this history as its the new relationship which matters and the friendship which is built from two people who are fond of each other.The companionships is the ultimate subject as when you are getting older, there is a need to be around someone you care for and love. This could be family, friends or someone closer you can spend some time with, talk with and help understand each other dilemmas and problems.Note: This is not all the time mind; there are positive angles on having relationships.In these kinds of relationships are the conversations more mature? Is there more understanding; are people more educated and intellectual? We all know as we get on in this world we can collect or gather a lot of information which personally is fascinating, especially when talking to people about subjects that maybe our younger generation have not fully understood yet or not even experienced. Its fascinating how someone's experience in their conversation,, can help and influence people and help gain a trust. This helps to build up the relationship through communication.What else is there? It’s not all about the physical aspect of the relationship, for some yes but there are more to details on how a relationship may develop between an older a woman and a younger man.There is also the cougar approach on this sort of relationship and the question is there a hunter? Which hunts for their cubs and I have seen this in the Cougars diaries which to be honest is that what it is all about, the lustful excitement on getting a younger body or is there an instant light a flick of spark which says hang on a minute this person is a bit fascinating and interesting.Let’s try lunch and see what happens!Nothing worse than meeting the person and saying I like you, it does not work in this day in age and the maturity of an older woman deserves a little more respect and some dignity please.People are entitled to their own view on this trend as they call it but it's the same as any relationship through attraction and fondness which develops into something a bit more and strengthens the friendship into a relationship status, not of a serious nature if you do not want it to be but a companionship you know that there is someone who is going to be there and someone to have a bit of fun with.One thing is said that most older women do know how to dress which could be one of those appealing attractions, and also how to organise and present themselves for a party or a night out on the town.Their experience has been acquired over the years in style regarding make up hair, types of clothes to go with which shoes, and the list goes on but this has built up over the years so they can reward themselves by looking professionally stunning and with the ultimately sexy look. Okay where do we start? Why are older women dating younger men? Well all the articles online seem to be from a perspective as a third person. Well it was decided that I should take a more personal approach taken from the forums which have been visited into a personal understanding of why an older women would be attracted or even date younger men.A lot of younger men do like the mature looking, sexy, intelligent and confident women. These women are truly incredible and admirable due to the fact that they are happy as a person. in the what they have achieved and what they are doing presently not really worrying too much about anything in life as they have seen a lot more and been able to deal with a lot more, through life experience.Some older women dating younger men do know how to dine and choosing the appropriate wine to accompany a meal is always good in a lot of people books, sophistication and class. Shall it be Tapas, Fish or a health-vegetarian meal which today was quite amusing to realise that the older you get the more knowledge people have on their own bodies and the effects of certain diets and dairy items! What foods to eat at certain times of the day and what not to do. A Fountain of knowledge.The fantastic part of older dating is the slight reminiscence with points of views of things in the past, sweets that used to be available, TV programs, changes in the times, if you like that kind of thing it can be very interesting and very informative. But is it the informative side you want or simple the fun. Well both and all can be achieved through time.There is time to build up the relationship from friendship, into someone to talk to and spend time with such as lunch, a meal; general chats into something a little more down the line.There is also the instantaneous approach where the magnet attraction kicks in and before you know it the explosion has started and straight to the bedroom, well what a day or night and thoroughly good fun.There are big gaps in some relationships but it’s doing what you feel is right for you and its the feelings which are important; If it does not feel right or you feel uncomfortable don't do it and don't build up false expectations for the other person. Generally the best advice in all relationship is to be yourself and to treat others with all the respect and dignity they deserved. We are all human and we all deserve the best from each other.So what wine shall we drink with our fish today? Enjoy
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reader, trigger127 +, writes (20 February 2011):
i think older women date and have sex with yonger men becuse they want to feel yung and sexy again.
its the same as older men dating and haveing sex with yunger women coz they want to feel yung. feel alive. fell that they have still got it.
here is a question why do yunger men and women go for older men and women. who nows some yunger women go for older men coz ther are more mature and they have a lot of money
yunger men go for older women maby coz they are more excpeiansed or maby they are the same as yunger women. maby they just want the money
or maby its coz they all have problems and have noone to talk to so they are all acting out in thiss way i dont know
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reader, Leodjoneluv  +, writes (16 February 2011):
 I'm 35 and my girlfriend is 49. She is wonderful, but problems still occur.
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