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writes: I would like to date a guy that I met in a club a month ago but unfortunately he is a soldier and had to go away few days later after we met and is coming back sometime this month. He gave me his e-mail address and we exchange some nice e-mails, including a nice photo that we had taken at the club, but he stopped writing and I guessed that he was in a camp... the question is... Should I write him another e-mail and what can I say? Reply to this Question
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reader, Clarey  +, writes (2 October 2005):
 Send a final email, that would be no problem. With a lovely photo. You can tell him that you liked him a lot and would like to see him again. His thoughts on the matter would be appreciated! He may have met someone else, or be away on duty somewhere. Hopefully he will tell you, but he is under no obligation to reply. Try not to be disappointed if that is the case. Remember that appart from the initial attraction you know very little about him. The fact that he liked you enough to corresspond is evidence that you are an attractive person. Use the confidence this gives you to attract another mate and do not rely on one person to validate how special you are. Know it and move on if that is necessary.
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reader, helpfull girl +, writes (2 October 2005):
write him 1 more email and say look i like you but i dont know where i stand here so i am giveing you 1 week to get back to me if you do not then i will never be in touch again! he contacts you then at least you know his intrested if he doesnt then better to forget him. (it doesnt have to be 1 week you pick the time)
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