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Not heard from my online guy in a few days. Do I forget about him?

Q.   I met a guy of the internet impulsively after just talking twice.Got on really well, met at my house the second time and he knew I had my son with me.. My son was asleep and we ended up sleeping together, only for my boy to walk in (sleep walking, ...

A.   17 November 2006: You need to move on. He only wanted you for sex and you conveniently and happily gave it to him. With your son in the next room no doubt. He's probably married anyway which is why he doesn't call you or talk to you. Clearly, he doesn't want you. ... (read in full...)

I'm online dating and have met two guys who seemed nice, but never got back to me. Why did they do this?

Q.   I am hoping someone could help with this. I have been on a online dating service for about four months now. My boyfriend left me about a year ago and I am trying to get back into the swing of things. I have met two of these guys face to face and ...

A.   17 November 2006: They just didn't like you which means they're not the ones for you. When you meet the person that you are meant to be with, it will be mutual. Stop worrying about the rejects and focus on the future. You're not meant to be with everyone that you ... (read in full...)

We talked online but we met for the the first time and now she's gone off me. What can I do?

Q.   Theres this girl i really like n we used to tlk a lot on msn bt since we met up for the 1st time she seems to have gone off me (i would like to point out im very ugly) is there anything i can do to go out wiv her?? ...

A.   17 November 2006: Physical attraction is very important and she's not physically attracted to you. There's nothing you can do to change that. It happens to everyone. Move on and find someone else.... (read in full...)

My online guy wants me to go to his place for our first meeting! Is it safe?

Q.   Iv met a man online and we have had conversations on the phone as well.We want to meet each other and see how we get on.Im 38 and he is 45,he has a studio which he does his art work etc and he wants me to see it.I want to see them but i wasn't sure ...

A.   17 November 2006: You need to meet him in a public place for the first couple of times. You should even invite a friend to come along with you. Do NOT go to his apartment alone. You don't even know him. If he really likes you and wants to get to know you then he ... (read in full...)

We've been online dating for 8 months and he wants me to 'conceive' when he comes in December! Should I just stop all this?

Q.   Hi,i have been dating a man online for the past 8 months,we planned a lot about our future including starting a family, the problem is he always keep on chatting with other women online and another thing he lives miles away from where i do but ...

A.   17 November 2006: Don't you EVER think about being with this man. What kind of man wants to only see you once a year. Not only that, you know nothing about him. What if he has AIDS. That's something you should both go get tested for together. Do NOT take his ... (read in full...)

He has money problems! Should I marry him?

Q.   me and my partner have been together for 1 year and 2 months and it was love at first sight, but he always has thing about lieing to me or like he says he doesnt want to hurt me so he keeps it from me, it always has to do with money problems and he ...

A.   17 November 2006: You need to talk about the money problems. Marriage is not the solution to money trouble. It's also the number one reason for divorce. You have to be able to trust him in order for the marriage to work and last. You should wait a while before ... (read in full...)

We flirt but I have asked her out, yet! Do you think she respects me more for holding out with her?

Q.   Hi there, I posted a question a couple of days ago, about the 31 year old male, who's flirting in the office with the 20 year old female. Well the flirting is still going strong which i am more than happy with, still sharing loving glances, ...

A.   17 November 2006: You should go ahead and ask her out and see if she meets your expectations. Holding out is cute in the beginning but after a while she's going to start to think that you are not interested. Go ahead and ask her out! Clearly she's going to say ... (read in full...)

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