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writes:for past 4 years me and husband av not had intercourse he said he doesnt have much feeling and goes flat when we try to have full sex what i dont understand is he can have full erection if it is done to him by hand,i think he might preffer this,as if he had prob in that area it wouldnt go up at all.he has said when i pushed for answers that he has relieved himself for years ,i am now at the stage i dont now weather to walk or what ,can anyone advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2008): Go to a counsler and find out from a professional. If he will not go then ask, why he doesn't want sex and what you are to do. Ask him if he minds if you get sex from someone else. Push his buttons.
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reader, wildman  +, writes (1 July 2008):
 I have that problem too, doing it by hand works but not normal sex. I just satisfy my wife first and do myself later. It is fun to work on her even though medications mess me up. don't give up talk about what you need from him to get off
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reader, gaslight +, writes (1 July 2008):
gaslight is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks to all for advice especialy anon i think u are right av spoken to him tnt but with no success
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2008): He jerks off too much. He needs to stop.
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reader, gaslight +, writes (1 July 2008):
gaslight is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks gullia wont go to doc and yes i think you right he has got used to doing it that way thanks again
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2008): I am sorry to read of your frustrations - I suffer a very similar story with my husband and despite trying everything to get him interested, nothing works. I am afraid the simple answer is to leave and start again. Not easy by any means but if sex is very important to you and you find yourself thinking about this issue most of your time and cannot settle within yourself for how things are, then you already know the answer.
He isn't going to change, the more he suits himself, the less he needs you. He is being selfish and not taking into account your feelings or needs.
I hope it works out for you if you decide to start again.
Good luck
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