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No sex drive any more, and all we do is play board games. I don't want to leave him, but what can I do?

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Question - (2 June 2005) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 June 2005)
A , *nnabelle_me writes:

I'm 20 years old and my boyfriend and I have been together almost four years now, we really love each other but is that enough?

I have no sex drive when it comes to us anymore, I don't even feel like kissing him. I find myself going into single chatrooms and lusting for other guys. I feel like I'm wasting my best years. All we ever do is watch T.V and play board games.

He is my best friend and I care for him a lot. I just wish I could have met him 6 or 7 years down the road. Before I met him I dated countless guys and but I always felt a little lonely.

I've tried talking to him about this but we both get too upset. I don't want to lose him but I also don't want to not have any fun before I die. Please help me

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A reader, clare_bear +, writes (3 June 2005):

IGNORE WHAT EVERYONE ELSE HAS SAID!!!! Sometimes lack of sex drive can be because something completely different is bothering you. I would seriously suggest that you see a doctor about this. It could be that because something isn't going right in another area of your life that it's affecting your sex drive. Is there anything else you're not happy with at home or at work or school if you're still a student. It can sometimes be ascociated with stress. There is more to love than sex but sex is a great way of expressing your love for someone. Just try relaxing a little and see what happens. Good luck sweetheart. I hope everything works out well for you!! x x x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2005):

Talk to him again, but if that doesn't work then break up with him, because there is nothing driving you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2005):

they have sexy board games that are made just for this.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2005):

Hate to say this sweetheart but it's time to move on and you know it. Good luck.

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