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writes:I always thought that people who cheated on their boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband were evil and disgusting.But now I know the truth they are not because I have cheated on my boyfriend more than once nothing happened just kissing/hugging.Of course I haven't told my boyfriend anything.I think that I shouldn't be with anyone because I have no idea who i like.What should i do? i want to break up with my bf but i dont know how.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2010): Interesting. You thought cheaters were evil and disgusting but now know the truth because you have cheated (albeit only kissing)?I think you really need to consider that statement. You're basically saying that cheating is OK after all now that you have done it.The upshot is you should leave your boyfriend immediately, he deserves better than someone who did this to him.
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reader, Odds +, writes (16 November 2010):
 Breaking up is simple, if not easy. Just tell him you want to break up, thank him for everything, ask him to delete your number, and move on. Harsh, but quick and clean. The hard part is working up the guts to do it.
You should break up, if you're going to be cheating. People exist who are willing to be in open relationships, to be swingers, whatever. If you date someone, but can't stand monogamy, find one of them, don't trick some poor soul into being your dupe.
You're right, cheaters aren't necessarily evil, but it's never just a mistake. It's important to remember that it's a deliberate act of disresepct and disloyalty to someone we're supposed to care about, and as such, it's disgusting, and a dealbreaker. We owe it to everyone else not to deliberately hurt them in this way, and if we do, to beg their forgiveness same as any other nasty thing we might do.
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