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writes: Dear Cupid:I am a 25 yrs old guy and never had a girlfriend in my life. There is this girl that I like but I do talk to her while she's working. She looks like the outgoing type. When I show up at her jobsite (the arcades), to play a couple of games, I get vibes that she is following me. What should I do to get her to like me and when is the right time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2005): Now. Take it from a sap who found out after the window of op became closed and locked. I wish I had acted on the times I felt just as you do now. Found out after the fact that women were interested in me but I chickened out.
What do you have to lose really? Al the worst, even if she says no, she will be flattered that a nice guy like you asked her out.
Always a good ego boost for a chick.
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reader, emeraldeyz +, writes (18 October 2005):
i think if you really like her you need to get to know her. Find out her interests but dont be too keen at first just be friendly to her. Makesure when you see her that you smile and that your dressed nicely and wearing nice aftershave! Wait till you have talked to her a few times then ask her out for a drink because even if she rejects you, you won't feel stupid because at the start you will have made it clear to her that you are friends. If she is interested in you back she will take it to the next level herself, so it wont be a worry to you. Hope this is a bit of good advice.
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reader, QOTU +, writes (18 October 2005):
 Personally, I think you should strike up a conversation with her, and ask her (pretend-casually) if she had a boyfriend.... FOLLOW THE CONVERSATION FROM THERE and eventually lead it to asking her if she would be interested in going out.
(DW, my bf's 22 and I'm his first GF. There's nothing wrong with that!)
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