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writes:I always have a nagging suspicion my fiance is cheating. Only talks on phone and texts when I'm not around never do I see her use her phone but she always needs minutes. Her days are spent on myspace cause she works nights. She gets angry if I walk in the room while shes on myspace. Am I bring paranoid or should I worry.
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reader, rcn +, writes (11 June 2009):
 Sounds like your feelings are correct. I know you don't want to falsely accuse, cause then it seems as if there is no trust. Personally, I'd look up and download a free hidden keylogger. Not to be invading privacy, but to confirm your suspicions. It makes a report of everything typed on the computer. Getting mad when you walk in the room, pretty much gives it away, but I'd do that to confirm it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): whenever you suspect someone is cheating there is at least 50% chance they are. One of the signs a person is cheating is those conversations and text messaging on the phone behind your back, unless she is helping a friend who's going through a problem.
Keep and eye if she picks up the phone in front of you. A person who has nothing to hide picks up their phone, nuff said. Do not become a spy on her, but do keep and eye on those signs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): Ok so she is getting mad at you for being around her when she is on myspace?
You could be right. Sometimes gut feelings are right. Though you should talk to her about it. Maybe not accuse her of cheating right away but ask her why she reacts that way. Maybe she has a reason. Also, be friends with her on myspace. It is a public network and if she nothing to hide, she should let you be a part of her social network. You could say that you feel left out and you want to be a part of whatever she does. See how it goes from there. Ask her to be honest.
I hope it turns out okay.
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