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writes:I have been with a girl now for 7 months and for the first 4-5 months our relationship was really strong, happy and we had never even argued with each other. around July this year we had our first argument due to a change in the way she was actging towards me. Our sex life had dipped and it seemed she didnt want to spend time with me. My girlfriend has in the past suffered from Anxiety/ depression and finds it very hard to open up to me when i confront her about such issues regarding our relationship. This has gotten worse over the last couple of months and resulted in more arguing, she then told me she liked another guy from her work and was being pushed towards him because of my actions and not trusting her. We split up yesterday over this and since then she has been to meet up with this guy from work and they have kissed. She cannot tell if she wants us to work things out as she is now torn between 2 guys. She loves me but doesnt think I can fix the situation between us because i will always be jealous towards him and her. Im so in love with this girl i have been scared of losing her and as a result of my worries i have pushed her away, What should I do?
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (20 October 2010):
 She does not seem as though she is even giving you a chance. She seems to assume that there is absolutely no hope for this relationship. She is finding an excuse to be with that other man.
You have to ask yourself if you are willing to give this relationship a chance. To me, it seems as though it is far too broken to fix. How can she question your trust when she herself is not showing any evidence at all of being trustworthy, she even told you that she has had feelings for another man and that they have kissed. She is not thinking this through. You can either ask her to give you a chance or you can leave and move on. You are not the one pushing her away, she is pushing away from you.
I hope that helps.
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