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My wife doesn't love me any more, wants to split... but not until the kids are older...

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Question - (20 April 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 April 2005)
A , *oryb writes:

Hi

I feel I'm going mad. On April the 9th, my wife said she doesn't love me anymore, for the second time (it happened 2 yrs before).

I was drinking, smoking every night, due to fears I have. See, I had a breakdown 5 yrs ago. I can't travel far due to fear, but I work and get a good wage.

When she took me back we moved to a bigger house. We have 2 kids, 15/12.

I know now that I should have changed, and I have asked if we can try again. I need to lose weight and switch back on, but the love has gone on her side, she said No.

We are living in the same house and she wants it to stay like that, and when the kids are older we go are own way and sell the house. I feel alone.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2005):

Thank you for the answer.

Its just after 17 yrs of being together(10 yrs marriage)

i still love this women deep down.

Your right in what you say, about love yourself,but thats what i did for yrs, and not show any love back.

i'm going to the doctor to try to get help wiyh my problems

for the first time i'm going to listen to him and try.

I dont want to lose this lady i have had in my life, i just wish i could turn the clock back, and of been a better husband and father.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2005):

Sorry you feel so alone but you are really not so alone because you have your children. You should change for you and your kids. love yourself. be good to yourself put you 1 and take care of yourself because if you can't love yourself how could you give love to anybody else? someone told me one day when one door closes another one opens so love yourself and one day you will have that the again

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