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My relationships always fail. How can I make sure this one lasts?

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Question - (21 February 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 February 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've had 4 serious relationships since I was 16 (one was 3 years, the other 3 were 1 year relationships). Obviously none of those guys were right for me, we ended up breaking up for one reason or another.

I've recently met a guy after being single for some monhts. I'm really crazy about him, and have that crazy mad lust feeling that I've only felt for one guy before. But I'm scared of messing it up. How do I get over these feelings?

It just seems every relationship I have fails.

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A male reader, g247 Ireland +, writes (21 February 2008):

You're not old by any means, so why the rush?

Almost everybody has numerous relationships fail at some point. Imagine how easy life would be if the first person we met was perfect for us. That's not the way it is though.

We all meet people, like things about them, dislike things about them, sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Take your lessons from each relationship and look forwards instead of backwards and see how you can help the next one succeed.

I'd suggest instead of worrying if they're 'Mr Right' or thinking you'll mess it up, just enjoy the relationship and take each day as it comes. When it's right for you, you'll know it.

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