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My penis sometimes won't get hard.

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Question - (10 March 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 March 2010)
A male India age 41-50, anonymous writes:

my penis is some times not getting much harder, and it not getting hard enough for sex......

wat to do ??

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A male reader, uncutdan United States +, writes (10 March 2010):

uncutdan agony auntHey Buddy,

I think you need to give more info here. if you want a good answer.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2010):

This is totally normal. It happens to all guys at some point in their lives. If they say it doesn't then they're lying.

Like the other person said, you need to think about why it isnt happening for you.

Sometimes for me, if I'm having sex (or trying to) with a new girl, even though i'm relatively confident in bed, i still can't 'get it up' for whatever reason.

Don't be embarrassed about seeing a doctor and/or a counsellor about it and if you're in a stable relationship, talk to your partner and see if she can think of anything that might be causing the problem (sometime other people will think of things that you yourself fail to think of)

But I repeat, this happens to the best of us.

Good luck.

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A female reader, mystiquek United States + , writes (10 March 2010):

mystiquek agony auntGo to a doctor and get yourself checked out. There could be underlying factors causing the problem, or perhaps you need some sort of pill like Viagara. None of us on here can really tell you what is wrong from just a description. It could be many things..psychological, physical..who knows?

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