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writes: maybe this is a common question but i need help guys,i have a wonderful relationship wth my bf,he keeps bringin up my past not always but at times and it irritates both of us,he gets completely pissed off when he even thinks abt it, i told him that i cant change my past i havent told him the details but even this scares him off, what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (21 November 2006):
 Hi there,
I really do not see what kind of a future you could possibly have with the man. Either he is insecure or possesive.
Assuming you are talking about sex, could he be feeling inadequate?
If you really want to push this to the limit, then sit him down and tell him everything there is to tell. He either will be able to deal with it, or he won't.
If he really can not deal with it, I would suggest to enjoy your time together, and see this as a temporary short term relationship.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, Tine  +, writes (21 November 2006):
 well you can't do anymore from what it sounds like! The past is the past and theres no way that you can change that, so he's just gonna have to come to terms with the fact that it is called the past for a reason. He shouldnt concentrate on the things you have done in the past because at the end of the day you've moved on from it so i think he should too. You should let him know how annoyed you are at him with the face that he doesnt even know what happened in your past, so how come he can be angry at it?
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