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writes:My boyfriend has just made a stupid mistake that has exposed him. My boyfriend was just visiting me and he asked to use my computer. It was very unfortunate that he forgot to log off his facebook account and now i have access to his messages. I always read his mails everytime when i feel like doing it. Now i have discovered that he is arranging dates with his friends every now and then the question is what should i do? should i tell him that i have access? Should i pretend to be ok and carry on reading his mails so that i will see what kind of person he is? Or should i wait to attend those appoinments that he booked with his friends? what should i do now??????
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reader, DEDEE  +, writes (6 April 2011):
well firstly that is not right you should never go through peoples personal stuff how would you feel if he looked through your facebook? dose it matter that he is arranging dates with his friend to go out and catch up is not a bad thing i am sure you have dates arranged with your friends to go out.there is one thing you need in a relationship and that is trust.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011): I would wait and see what he is doing. I would not tell him that you have access to his FB account. At least this way, you can see if he is truly trying to kick it with someone else or if he is being faithful. Then make a decision from there.I would never let him know that you can watch his FB account, even if you find that he is a dog and is cheating. I would not give him the satisfaction of knowing how you found out.
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