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writes: I love my b/f of over 2 years. In March he quit his full time job in order to work part time doing something he loves. We are strapped financially and I am feeling the pressure and work full time plus a second job. He says he is looking for full time work but spends every day hanging out with his sister, who then takes him to work. How should I handle this? Reply to this Question
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reader, Delila +, writes (2 September 2005):
You are feeling like you do all the work while he sit around for most of the day. A really clear message is needed here. You could try suggesting that you live apart so that you are responsible for your own bills and how much money he makes is up to him. I am assuming that you are living together at the moment. This will either give him a wake up call or it may not change a thing in which case it would probably be better if you got your own place but continued seeing each other if you still wanted to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2005): I think that you should give up your second job and make sure that your boyfriend gets a full time job instead of hanging round with his sister all the time.
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