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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2008): i feel the same way i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and we haeva beautifl daughter together but i have had feeling for his one friend ever since we started dating and we eventally told each other that we had feelings for each other then they quit being friends and we havent spoke in months! But i am still in love with im and my boyfriend but the more i am falling in love with him the more im falling ot of love with my boyfriend
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): it's hard i know i am in the same boat right now. i am still in love with my ex but the new guy i really like him and i dont know which one to chose from i dont want to hurt nither of them but i am only hurting my self right now but not beening with either i jsut can chose. but if i was you go with the one that your heart leads you to not to where people lead you to that will only lead you to more pain later on
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007): thats totally a very hard choice you have there...but if you really love your boyfriend. STAY WITH HIM!!! because you shouldn't leave someone you love for someone you like. This is the exactly same situation as i have but im sticking with my boyfriend because i know he truly loves me and if i go with the other guy...that guy might leave me and i would have nothing.....so think about it....
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007): Hi. I'm in love with two guys at the moment. The other one is hot and handsome, and the other one is just something totally different. the worst thing is that these guys are best friends. I don't see anything wrong by being in love with both of them, but i'm not actually dating them either.I think you just have to do the same thing as i have to do, choose the one you want more. you can't have them both, unfortunately... Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2005): you know...nothing wrong with you..its just our feeling is strange..try to ask them..how he loves you and you'll see what's the answer to your questions...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2005): I have a boyfriend that loves me so much and i'm in love with him too, but i think i am also in love with my best friend, which is a guy, who also likes me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2005): I think that you should either stop falling in love with this other guy or dump your boyfriend. There's no point of loving two people. What would you do if they met each other one day and they both worked out that you liked them and then you'd end up with none of them. Either work harder improving your relationship with your boyfriend or dump him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2005): Hello Miss Confused...
You're still young and it is normal to feel that way. You're just not 'in love' with your current boyfriend and want to try other things and other people.
There is no point staying with somebody you can't picture yourself spending the rest of your life with so just move on.
If the other guy has the same feelings towards you then give him a go! If it doesn't work out, keep searching for your true love ;-)
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reader, Anastasia +, writes (2 September 2005):
so you love your boyfriend and everytime to you see this other guy you fall in love with him. So if Cookie Monster decides to roll by your house later...what happens then? It is very insensitive to be loving two people at the same time. One person will always be hurt in it. Do you want to be responsible for that. Decide who you want to be with, it makes no sense hurting innocent people ...especially the one that loves you right now.
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