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writes:Hi,I have been dating a girl with a fairly colorful past for sometime now. The sex has been great up to this point. However, like many other guys I'm struggling with the idea of her past partners. It doesn't bother me as much sometimes, but I am curious as to one thing.I was hoping to get some female opinions on just how different one man can feel from another. I'm sure everyone moves differently, or what have-you, but my over-contemplative mind really wants to know do different men feel that different inside a girl?I would appreciate any serious answers, this has been on my mind for some time, and I know it sounds odd, but figuring it out either way would help me out greatly...Thanks in advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): Wow,
thanks for the rapid responses, I really have trouble not contemplating the minutiae of this relationship (I'm a born thinker, and study philosphy and classics).
I don't think I'm worried she's still into the old partners, as we've been dating for over a year and thus am thinking very seriously about "us."
I'm not worried about the size of anything down there
(not because I think I'm generously well-endowed or anything like that, I just feel like we "fit" together well, so my size relative to other people would seem to not to matter)
I guess regardless of performance I just want to know that things CAN be different when we are being intimate.
I feel that i'm very similar (same first name, similar ocd tendencies among other personality things; her sister accidentally spilled too much for my comfort one time we were hanging out together) to one of the last boyfriends and it kind of hurts my feelings for some reasons.
SOO (sorry for rambling), due to my limited sexual experience, I really don't know if it different guys felt that different for girls (assuming some level of competence).
thanks very much Tisha-1 i feel that your response kind of touched on things i might know, but that reinforcement of can't hurt, i.e. the complex sexual response of women.
thanks guys, i look forward to more opinions
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (12 June 2008):
 You're probably not going to be able to believe me, and I'm sure that other women might tell you something different, but it's not so much the how he feels inside as how he makes you feel. And by that I mean some man might be 0.5 cm or 1.0 cm or 2.0 cm longer or shorter or thinner or wider than another.
But if he doesn't know what to do with the rest of his body and where or how to find the woman's pleasure points, well then he's not much use in bed.
A woman's sexual response is connected not only to her genitals and body but also, and probably most importantly, to her brain.
A man can be gorgeous, perfectly built, 5% body fat, six-pack abs, a picture perfect penis to boot, and still be a complete failure in bed.
So to go back to your question, yes a man might feel different inside, but it's usually because one guy knows what he's about and how to move and what do before, during and after intercourse, and another guy thinks that because he has above average measurements, that that's all he needs.
You'll get lots of opinions on this one, I think!
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): I think you'd be better off just accepting things the way you are. Why do you need to know? Ask yourself that. There's nothing better at shrinking the old todger than being told that a previous partner lasted longer, was thicker, longer, stronger or had more stamina.
If you must ask the question, be prepared for some answers you don't really want to hear.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): I believe you will get a lot of different answers on this one. But from personal experience, yes it does vary, and yes, no two people are the same!
However, I must add, it never made a difference to me, enjoying the person I am with!
Hope this helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): you may be worried that she is still into her other partners and you are thinking negative and remember thinking negative gets you no where in life so if you are worried about her past partners then ask her about it don't hold a gudge
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