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writes: I have a really good friend who lives right outside NYC, about an hour and a half away from where I am at. We used to chat online through AIM/Skype/etc (almost) every single day, and we both really liked each other, and we were very close to starting a relationship.Then, one day 5 weeks ago, she vanished.She was no longer on AIM, she had her cell phone off, there was no way for me to get a hold of her. I was very worried about her for four weeks, and I sent her a bunch of emails asking her to get back to me. Then, last week she sent me an email back apologizing, saying that she was on vacation in Iceland [and had hundreds of photos to prove it], and she was going to be back to NYC later that day.I was very relieved, though very annoyed that she never told me that she was going to go on vacation and left me to worry all that time.One week later: I still have not heard from her. I sent her a few (nice) emails asking her to please call me or AIM me or something, but she hasn't responded to anything yet. This is so frustrating, and I'm really tired of waiting for her. I really, really like her, though. She probably doesn't mean to hurt my feelings, and she is just being her free-spirited (yet socially-oblivious) self, but this is killing me! I really want to know the best way to proceed such that I have the best chances of talking to her again and seeing her, and perhaps starting a potentially great relationship. But if that isn't possible, I need to know!Thanks in advance... Reply to this Question
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reader, tux  +, writes (10 February 2009):
 Calm down.. relax.. breathe.. breathe... breathe.. Patience my poor internet acquaintance. Well i would relax a little bit on your internet friend. she may just be busy with other things right now that are taking up her time.. In the end, you will find out. If it was meant to be, she'd contact you. To phrase a cover of a certain book. "Don't Panic!"
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