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writes: My boyfriend does not like to work. Not even to help me. He works enough to pay HIS bills. A year ago, he gave me an idea to buy a bigger car, he would help with the payment. I did. He started driving my old car, without actuallly asking, he said he was going to borrow it for a while. A year later, we are still arguing, b/c he hasn't paid me for the car. Plus, I have a old phone bill $400.00 that he hasn't paid. But "he loves me" Yeah we have GREAT sex, but I want more!!! 4 years of a mooch can I take anymore!!I feed him, use to buy his clothes, not any more!! I don't feel appreciated. I have told him a thousand times how I feel, all he says" I love you" wa wa wacry cry cry. I want action!!! Do I give up a 4 year relationship b/c this guy has no stamina to move on in life, I don't think it is asking too much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2006): Are u the chick from the offspring song, "get a job". Sounds like you are. Tell him to get off the couch and get a job or he can move out and find another girl to mooch off. No wonder the sex is great, he gets to rest all day whilst the rest of us have to go to work!
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reader, RedRobin +, writes (4 January 2006):
 Why should he go any place when he's being taken care of by you... all he has to say is I LOVE YOU. I sure wish I can say I Love you and get my bills paid! If you are tired of taking care of him tell him then demand he gets a better paying job or two jobs for all that matters or hit the road jack and don't he come back.
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