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My married lover says its ok for me to go out with other guys

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Question - (11 February 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 February 2009)
A female Philippines age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i!ve been in a long distance relationships to a married man.we always keep in touch,but one day he told me that he has nothing to promise me about our relationships he said all those things to make our relationship clear,bec.he said he loves woman,i realized that he has another girl friend.and he said its ok with him if i will go out with another guy.but he doesnt want to lose me.he told me to understand him.i dont know what to do.please help me to make wiser decisions..i really need your advice.thank you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2009):

God he's an arrogant horrible person, he want's it all at other peoples expense and feelings, dump this horrible man and walk away with pride, he will never be true to anyone far less you.Affairs are horrible and soul destroying so let this pig go. He will meet his match and he deserves it.

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A female reader, Annieapple United Kingdom +, writes (11 February 2009):

He’s saying you can go with other guys to relieve his own conscience about the fact he is stringing you along and is with other women. It’s up to you whether or not you continue the relationship but wouldn’t you rather be with someone who loves you and only you and expects the same from you in return?

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A female reader, auntie sue United Kingdom +, writes (11 February 2009):

u need to understand that he is never going to leave his wife no matter what he say's, he is just hanging you on a sting

it would be better for you if you cleared all attachments from him and start going out meeting new people and start enjoying life don't rush into another relationship.

i know it will be hard but it would be worth it in the end

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