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writes: my husband came home tonight after going out riding around, i texted him and asked him when are you going to be home so we can have sex, he said no thanks not in the mood.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2006): Don't know, were the two of you fighting recently...if this behavior continues it could be a sign of cheating...but best to just be patient and see what develops. Try making a date a day or so ahead of time for sex, maybe he was put off by the urgency of your when will you be home for sex text, maybe he needs more romance from you, dear.
Just try to ignore it if it does not become a pattern, maybe he just was not in the mood.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (29 October 2006):
 Well, firstly, we need to know how unusual this is for him? Has he ever done this before? Secondly, are there any reasons he may not feel in the mood? Maybe work stress or illness? If you can't find a solution from these things then I think you need to ask the only person who really knows . . . him.
Tell him you felt surprised and rejected when he turned you down and ask him why this was. Everyone has the right to say no if they don't feel like it but, if this is unusual for him, I understand your concern. But really, the only way to sort this out is to talk to him and see what is bothering him.
Good luck
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