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writes: hi, i hope you can help, i have had enough now. i have been with my partner for 10 and half years, we got married a month ago, we have 2 children already. i already had a son and i am 24 weeks pregnant. the problem is my past, my son's father, who i hate so much, i was very young when we met, he used to hit me, run me down, a big mastake, i put up with that for 7 years( a fool i was). I am sick to death of my husband now throwing my past in my face asking sexual questions over and over again, i answer truly and he never believes me. i get so stress of all this, and not going to put up with this much longer. i dont want to split up cause i love him so much but i have had enough now. its being going on for so long, we cant solve any thing. i keep telling him to get help but he never does, he says what can they do,please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2005): Well, what you need to do is tell him that the past is the past and what was happening to you in that situation wasn't your fault. That if he loves u then why is he bringing something that hurt you and traumatised u up all the time-who does he think he is? It may be though that he is trying to understand what u went through so is having a go to see what effect it has on u-talk to him
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