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writes: My husband was mad when I told him I am 7 wks pregnant. We have been married 2.5 yrs now and he says he doesn't like children, though he plays well with his niece and nephew. He wants me to abort.What shall I do? He hasn't refused to talk on this subject anymore and we haven't been on talking terms for a week now. Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (17 November 2005):
 Did you purposely get pregnant against his wishes? If you knew he didn't want children but got pregnant anyway then that's one thing. If it truly was an accident then that's another thing. If you want to keep the baby after "tricking" him, you may lose a husband and quite frankly your actions should be considered reprehensible. However, if it was an accident and you want to keep the baby he really needs to step up to the plate and face his responsibilities. Of course he may leave you anyway, if he is totally against the idea of fatherhood but he owes you support. Deciding to have a child should always be something BOITH husband and wife agree on and should never be left to accident. In this day and age with all sorts of effective birth control there shouldn't even be any accidental pregnancies. In any case you are knocked up and may end up being a single parent if he doesn't come around.
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reader, ravekitten +, writes (17 November 2005):
I'm going to be straight forward on this , You need to tell him how you feel . you need to tell him that this is his baby too . And if he still being this way then maybe you should concider maybe leaving him or there are options . Either way . This is bad.
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