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writes:my husband has been pretending to be ayoung girl on apoker site he has been chatting to a man in finland he stays up until all hours chatting and flirting he has today sent him a cd of love songs please can anybody help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2009): He may think this is the funniest thing he's ever heard of... lead them on and then submarine... or worse, confess - wait, worse would be to invite him over and then laugh in his face...
Seriously, you need to ask him why he's doing this... it's seriously rude,and the guy on the other end of the deal is probably not due this kind of treatment.
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reader, confusedinkent +, writes (1 July 2008):
 I think it might be possible its some sick joke!. men are really cruel somtimes, and he might seriously see this as a really funny joke!.
I mean its a bit far fetched, but think about it. hes a fully grown man hes on one of these chat sites, he gets the wrong kind of attention by accident, then before you know it its an ongoing joke between him and hes mates!. its crazy but some of the stuff my hubby and hes mates used to get up to for a giggle would make your hair curl!.
Its a possiblity, but failing that I'd go with midlife crisis or something even more sinister.
good luck
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reader, WastedLife  +, writes (1 July 2008):
I agree with the first answer. Have you asked why he is doing it? Did you tell him it creeps you out? And have you asked him to stop doing it for you?
If he has no good answers after this, you might want to ask him if he really wants to be with you, since it seems he cares more for an anonymous internet personna than for you. Perhaps the "man in Finland" is actually a girl in London!
The real question is how serious is it. If not serious, it's insensitive. If serious, it's time for a marriage counselor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2008): Have you asked him to stop? Communication is a big key. Men are not psychic.
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