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My husband is a neanderthal! He thinks that sex is for a man's pleasure only... Help!

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Question - (9 January 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 13 August 2006)
A female , *herylAhmed13 writes:

Is it concered a crime to want love returned ? my husband thinks it is good enought that he climaxes during sex and he thinks i should just be happy because he cums any so what if i dont plz tell me if this is a good sign in our marriage.he thinks sex is for men only....help

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2006):

No! Not a good sign. I've been marrid twice now and my 2nd is showing to be an ass 2. It's not you.

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A female reader, shania United Kingdom +, writes (10 January 2006):

shania agony auntOh my god! I couldnt believe it when i read this letter.What on earth are you doing with him? This man is a selfish,self centred,self absorbed PRATT! The next time he wants sex,tell him to go in to the garden and use the hole in the tree.If you have told him how you felt and he still doesnt give a damn then im afraid your marriage is dead,i am surprised that you have stuck it out so long? Dont put up with crappy sex any longer,otherwise you have got this for the next 50 yrs or so.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2006):

You are married to a creep, dear who has little or NO respect for women at all, in general. He sounds like a "rutting boor". As far as he thinks, women are on this earth to 'service' him and he feels entitled. I would seriously evaluate this relationship and perhaps consider just walking away because he will never change. His behaviours have been deeply ingrained likely from his own, sorry upbringing. He does not respect you, dear. Time to become relaity-based and realize this. Move on but while your doing that...you might also explore why you permit someone to treat you so poorly. Good luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2006):

I use to be with a man who was the same way but, once I got rid of him and met my man now I found out it was a whole different expirence to have sex my man makes sure I cum first then he will proceed to cum himself I love it that way I feel so good that I'm with a man who love's me that much to put me first then himself You will find that someone like your husband is obviously selfish as was my ex and unless he starts to think differently you are probaly always gonna have this problem.Become selfish please your self first use a vibrator tell him to wait and when your done you'll please him if he's lucky!! Good Luck

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2006):

This guy sounds like a sleezeball. He should be striving to return your affection. Next time you are getting intimate, I wouldnt move too far in until he pleasures you. If he refuses until you pleasure him, tell him how you feel about all this. Just my 2 cents. Hope it all goes well. Best of Luck.

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