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writes:My boyfriend who i love more than anything has been really considering going into the army. I support him 100% but i am just afraid that he might find someone else while he is there. Do you think that there is a good chance that would happen? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2007): ok coming from a veteran of the army here is probly some of the best advice you can get, after all i have seen almostg all variations of your question in real life.
first of all I noticed you didnt give ages so I will assume you are both seniors in high school and will turn 18 by the time you graduate and he ships to basic.
Now odds of him finding someone else in basic are very low if notimpossible, basic and job training only lasted for me 13 weeks. If you have been together for awhile and truly love eachother why not marry him and go with him, it can be the greatest expierience of your life, it would be best to marry b4 he goes to basic and depending on your state the age would not be too big of an issue if your 17 and him 18 most states will let you marry, and the military will accept it as is.
second of all if you dont go with him you will leave all possabilities open, I have seen guys wait for their loved ones to be ready and I also have seen guys almost forget about their girl back home and do what they feel, (the girls do it to). but either way the best thing you can do itg support him in his decision, and tell him take an intrest test b4 he signs the dotted line, 95% of soldiers are in a field they hate because they didnt take a simple test.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2007): If he is going to find someone else he doesn't need to join the Army to do it!
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