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writes: me and my girlfriend have been together since december last year. so far we have had a great relationship but over the past month things have gone all weird and i dont know where we are going.we haven't had sex for about a month as she said all i wanted her for was sex and sometimes felt forced into it. so i have given her space plenty of it and i give her what she wants which is to hug and cuddle instead which is fine with me. but now it seems in her eyes all i want is to hug sometimes when i get close to hug or cuddle she will push me away to say she is not comfy.she used to tell me she loved me all the time like when we where going home or to work i'd get a hug and kiss aswell but now when i say i love her i seem to get blanked out and when i feel as if she didn't hear me she would sigh and then say it.we do talk how we feel and resolve our problems but for a while i feel as if it has been sorted out something else comes along. i had a message off her the other night asking why i loved her and why i wanted to stay with her which felt weird but i replied how i felt but when i ask the same question because we previously talked about it u already know.she makes me feel like im always paranoid about something and also tells me that i am paranoid. she tells me i get too much telling her i love her and i miss her when all i really want is to hear the same back.wheres it all going wrong ? am i really that paranoid ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2005): I'm currently in a relationship that I want to end but I don't want to 'break up' because I really don't want to hurt my boyfriend or make him feel upset. My boyfriend is my best friend, but i'm not in love with him anymore. The way your girlfriend is treating you is similar to the way I'm treating my boyfriend. I'm really sorry, but it seems like she may not want to be in a relationship with you anymore.
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