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My girlfriend likes submissive men but ditched me because I was TOO submissive... How can I be more confident?

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Question - (28 February 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 April 2010)
A male United States age 41-50, *aptornx02 writes:

Recently my girlfriend broke up with me. For a time it seemed things were going well, but she ended it, and after a bit of time she told me why. She likes submissive guys (not just in the bedroom) but she said I was too submissive for a relationship. That I wasn't aggressive enough. In a way I agree with her, and I know this is a problem that has and will effect my relationships and my day to day life. I want to know, how can I learn to become more aggressive in my day to day life so I can carry that over into relationships?

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A female reader, LotusDomme United Kingdom +, writes (29 April 2010):

LotusDomme agony auntOh dear. I'm really far too late to answer this question,(by about 3 yrs!) but I would say to ANY man who is submissive, don't change! You will find someone who will appreciate you for who you are in time.

LotusDomme.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2007):

Find another girl friend. I have been a serial sub for three dommes for over 10 years. Each domme has wanted me to be completely submissive. So, don't change yourself. find another domme.

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A male reader, Bling Jamaica +, writes (28 February 2007):

My girlfriend told me once in the past that i am too sensitive. after she told me that, i start treating her little more rougly then i started be aggressive to her sometimes and it works,the girls will like you for that. So just give her what she ask for, if she want to be treated rough or aggressively then treat her that way.

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