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writes: My girlfriend and I of two and a half years broke up over a month ago. She said she didn't think she could rekindle the feelings she once had for me. Yet she kissed me after we broke up.... I was like OMG why did you do that!? She said she wanted to kiss me one last time. I told her it isn't the last time! Since then she said she needed her space before we could hang out again. Little did I know that this space was not only physical. I gave her IM's online and we had short convos and we both seemed fine! A couple of weeks ago she was very short and mean with me online. I realized that I hadn't respected her space. So as of right now I have not spoken to her in over a week, and I do not plan on doing so until she contacts me. I know she said she doesn't want to get back together. But I just have a hard time giving up hope, we had so many hopes and dreams for our future! Is there any chance at all?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2006): Unfortunately you don't have the crystal ball to read the future like we all wish we did! We just don't know what tommorow will bring.
Sounds to me like you should just respect her wishes and give her the time she is seeking. She is probably frustrated by you Im-ing her, and its just causing conflict in the long run.
When she is "ready" I'm sure she will contact you and let you know where the two of you stand.
I know its hard and you, yourself are frustrated and probably confused about the whole thing. This will also give you sometime to reflect on the relationship yourself and ponder what and why things have led up to this.
Like I said give her the time she needs and do your best to "not" contact her at all,no matter how tempting it is. In time, hopefully this will prove to her that you do respect her feelings and wishes.
Hope this helped some, hang in there!
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