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writes:My girlfriend and I just bought motorcycles. Now, she's planning all of these day rides when I am working with our local riders group. Most people that go on these rides with her are men. Being a man, I know what a turn on it can be to see a girl that rides a bike. It just makes me feel very uneasy about the whole situation. Maybe I am being ridiculous, but I am afraid of her putting herself at risk being the only girl on these "day" rides.Now, she's planning on riding to her house across the state to go and pick up her mail/rent and planning these day rides for that as well. I think it's a bit too personal to be bringing men whom she's never met to stop at her house especially when I'm not with her.Any help would be really appreciated. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2009): I have to agree with the above poster. Jealousy is like walking on a thin line. Its good in small amounts, but can totally destroy a relationsship.
What you need is something do do yourself! If she is taking rides, you need something else. Then share your experiences! Tell each other what you've been up to. Then suddenly you are more interested in what she is doing then stalking her.
And I bet she will be VERY interested in what the heck you've been up to.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 September 2009):
This is one of those cases where you have to trust her. Let her be. If she's right for you, nothing will happen with these other guys. It may just be completely harmless. Don't forget that being on a motorcylcle is also one of the most free feelings in the world too. Trust her, see what happens, because if yoou don't let her be, she'll resent it.
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