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*luemondae
writes:A very good male friend of mine - I have never displayed or had a sexual interest for him (I am female)- got married 2 months ago and has not told me a word of it yet! When I asked him after I found out of his marriage - anything new in your life ? he replied - no nothing new, everything is as usual. Also he takes off his wedding ring every time we bump into each other on the street. Any ideas on this behaviour of his? Please, any answer would be useful.
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reader, bluemondae +, writes (28 September 2008):
bluemondae is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks hopeful romantic! Your answer has been very very useful and has "hit the nail on the head"! But still, what do I do now? Should I confront him, ignore him, wait for him to make the first move on the subject? We have been friends for 15 years (I forgot to mention that I am happily married with two children, so I don't really pose a threat).
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reader, Hopeful Romantic +, writes (24 September 2008):
 I could be wrong, but it sounds to me as though he may have some sort of feelings for you, always has, but never knew how to tell you or discuss it w/ you & now that he is married, he just isn't comfortable letting you know because he gets those mushy feelings when he's around you & it just makes him feel weird to let you know. & now it has already been so long that he got married that it makes him feel even more strange to let you know b/c he would have to have what he thinks "an akward" conversation w/ you about how he's been married for 2 months & didn't tell you & doesn't want to have to answer any questions you may throw at him (because he secretly has feelings for you and that would make him feel even more uncomfortable)
I'm not sure, but this could be the case?
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